Hi Cazza,
Good to hear from you. I too have had a lot of trouble with my back (3 prolapsed discs), but not as bad as you, and appreciate that on top of the RA how miserable life can feel, living in constant pain and with not being able to move around is the pits!!
I'm really pleased that your GP has referred you to the OT and Social Services and with their help you should be able to receive support at home, and hopefully life should become easier.
Take care and a big cyber hug,
Love,
Barbara
XXXXX